Unless you see clear signs of abuse or manipulation (isolation, pressure, disrespect), avoid saying “It’s them or me.” Instead, share your hopes for your daughter’s well-being: “I want you to feel safe and valued. If you ever don’t, I’m here.”
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Invite them for a low-pressure meal or coffee. Ask open-ended questions: “How did you two meet?” “What do you enjoy doing together?” Avoid interrogations. Your goal is connection, not control. Unless you see clear signs of abuse or