You first feel it not in a dream of touch, but in a moment of recognition too sharp to be innocent. You are fourteen, watching your father tie his shoelaces. The back of his neck holds the same curve as the back of your own hand. And for a flicker—less than a breath—you think: I could live inside that curve. I already do.
That is the seed of it. Not lust, but misrecognition . The Freudians call it the family romance. The poets call it the tragedy of the double. In Java, some old stories whisper about nglampah sedarah —not as act, but as curse: when the blood calls to itself because the world outside the blood has become too foreign, too cold. fantasi sedarah
So you lock the door again. Not because you are pure. Because you have learned that some rooms are not meant to be entered. They are meant to be visited in the dark, with trembling hands, and left before dawn. You first feel it not in a dream