Anthropologists argue that the ceremony provides a necessary emotional release. In many cultures, grief is hidden. But the Bidai gives a family permission to mourn the change in structure—the empty chair at dinner, the quiet room upstairs. Those tears are not a sign of unhappiness for the bride’s future; they are a sign of the depth of the love she leaves behind.
The Bidai is over. But the daughter has ensured that a piece of home travels with her forever. bidai ceremony
And that is why, for all the tears, it remains the most unforgettable part of any wedding. Anthropologists argue that the ceremony provides a necessary