The biggest lie we tell young lovers is that ambiguity is romantic. It is not. It is exhausting.
You learn to ask the hard questions on the third date instead of the third year. Do you want children? Are you financially sane? Are you actually over your ex? alover 30
After 30, you realize that love is not a renovation loan. You either accept the house as it is, or you walk away. You learn to love people for their potential and their reality. You stop asking, "Could this work if they changed?" and start asking, "Does this work right now ?" The biggest lie we tell young lovers is